Your Narcissist (An Instruction Manual Of Sorts)

Congratulations! You are the proud owner of your very own narcissist. By following the directions in this manual and taking the proper precautions you will enjoy a lifetime enjoying freedom from your narcissist.

Note: to balance equity with ease of reading this manual will use the rotating pronoun.

Note 2: A “narcissist” is not really a thing. As a follower of Jesus Christ I believe ALL people have value and are loved. The proper term is “Person who suffers from a personality disorder commonly called narcissism”. Yeah I don’t want to type that over and over so when I say “Your narcissist” it’s important to understand that I do not define any person by any trait they may have. Except Christian, cause that’s how we are all judged.

The following is what you should know about your narcissist.

Your narcissist is responsible for the abuse she subjected you too. You did nothing to deserve the hell she put you through

Your narcissist may not actually be a narcissist. All narcissists are terrible people but not all terrible people are narcissists. Even if he is not a narcissist you still did nothing to deserve the hell your abuser put you through.

Your narcissist is not responsible for your bad actions. If you did wrong to a narcissist you still did wrong and you own it. Someone else’s evil actions do not excuse your own. That’s one of them there tough sayings of Jesus.

Your narcissist is not responsible for any bad decisions you made unless you did so because of his lies or actions. You are responsible. Own it!

Your narcissist is very intelligent and a great faker. He will convince you he loves you and cares for you. But it’s all a lie.

Your narcissist hates you but she hates everyone and everything (or close to it) so again, its not you. Actually its not hate, more like malicious indifference. You do not matter to her.

Your narcissist will use you, abuse you then discard you. He will not offer an explanation or closure. Do you offer an explanation to the toilet paper you just used when you flush it? That’s how he views you.

Your narcissist will probably never leave you. She’ll take breaks but she’ll always be back. Because you have what she needs (the negative emotions they draw from you like food for a human or blood for a vampire).

Your narcissist wants to have contact with you. Avoid it as much as possible.

Your narcissist does not find you special or endearing. You have no value to him beyond the amusement you provide via your hurt.

Your narcissist is dangerous. He has no boundaries and no consideration for anyone’s feelings. Physical, emotional, financial or legal abuse are all in play. The only saving grace is they do have enough pre planning abilities to not completely destroy you as your negative emotions and other useful traits can still serve them.

Your narcissist does not need your help. Ever! If she is in imminent danger do what you must to keep her safe but once the imminent danger has been addressed leave ASAP.

Your narcissist is wrong about your value as they do not get to define it. One even greater than they think they are decides that. And trust me, He didn’t consult her.

Your narcissist cannot be helped by you or anyone. Only God and / or extensive psychiatric treatment can help him. Understand that.

Your narcissist is wrong about your value as they do not get to define it. One even greater than they think they are decides that. And trust me, He didn’t consult her.

Please consult this manual whenever you need help dealing with your narcissist. And God bless.

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