This one just wrote itself. Really, a copy n paste job.
Congratulations, Christopher, you are a WHITE personality. The Core Motivation that guides you through life is “Peace.” This is not referring to a political agenda or the absence of war. It is, however, an absence of inner conflict, much closer to the idea of serenity, and an acceptance of oneself and others. You have a strong and compelling need to keep things in balance in your life so as to maintain an internal feeling of tranquility and comfort.
As a WHITE, you seek independence and require kindness, especially from those with whom you are in a relationship. You resist confrontation at all costs. (To you, feeling good internally is even more important than being good.) You are quiet by nature, process things very deeply and objectively with great clarity. Of all the colors, WHITES are the best listeners. You respect people who are direct but recoil from perceived hostility or verbal battle.
You need your “alone time” and refuse to be controlled by others. WHITES want to do things their own way and in their own time. They ask little of others and resent others demanding much of them. You are probably much stronger than people think, but are not often seen for your strength because you don’t easily reveal your feelings.
Before you read your profile results and begin to learn how The Color Code will help you relate to potential matches more effectively, there are five fundamental principles of The Color Code that you need to understand.
THE COLOR CODE IS MOTIVE-BASED
You need to know that The Color Code works and is the best tool on the market today, because it is based on human motivations (why you do what you do) rather than on human behaviors (what you do). Behavior (for example, the way you act in a chat room or on a date) can be imitated, copied, or faked, but if you know the true motivation behind the behavior (what is driving the person to behave as they do), you already have a very clear picture of what that person is all about.
YOU ONLY HAVE ONE CORE MOTIVE OR “COLOR CODE”
Your personality type is driven by only ONE of four Core Motives, represented by the colors:
- RED (Core Motive = Power, or the ability to move from “a” to “b” as efficiently as possible)
- BLUE (Core Motive = Intimacy, this doesn’t mean sex, but the need to connect, share feelings, and build relationships with others)
- WHITE (Core Motive = Peace, or calm even in the midst of conflict; clarity in the midst of confusion)
- YELLOW (Core Motive = Fun, or always enjoying the moment)
These are the four basic personality types that I will teach you about. However, very few people have ever scored 100% in one single color while taking the profile; therefore, you will find that your Core Color is often influenced by traces of the other colors. That is why no two WHITES, although driven by the same Core Motive of Peace, will ever be exactly alike.
YOUR COLOR WAS PRESENT AT BIRTH AND YOU CANNOT CHANGE IT
You were born with your core personality color intact (ask any woman who has given birth to more than one child and she’ll tell you that her children had different personalities before they had drawn their first breath), and while parts of your personality do change over time (for example, you may have not been born a good listener, but you have learned to become one), you cannot and should not try to discard your Core Color in an attempt to trade it for another. If you were born a YELLOW, you will die a YELLOW, but you can add to yourself any strength or any limitation of any color to your core self.
ALL COLORS ARE OF EQUAL IMPORTANCE
No personality type is better than another. Each brings equally valuable, albeit, different gifts to the world.
ALL COLORS ARE NEITHER GOOD NOR BAD
No personality type is innately good or bad. Many people who do not know The Color Code may assume that all BLUES must be good and all REDS must be bad, for example. This couldn’t be more false. The colors are neutral and individuals are free to choose how they will use their strengths and limitations to leave either a positive or a negative legacy in life.
Why You’re Hot
YOU ARE A SUPERB LISTENER
Have you ever heard your friends complaining about how their (boyfriends / girlfriends) don’t listen to them, not understanding how this could be? It’s because you listen so naturally. This is such a turn-on, because your partner will feel your interest in them and know that you hear even what they are not saying.
YOU MAKE OTHERS FEEL COMFORTABLE
You have a way of putting people at ease. You don’t try to intimidate or make things too formal. In fact, you prefer creating a very relaxed and open atmosphere, which works to your advantage, because the (men/women) in your life like to know that you are accessible and approachable, and that they don’t have to put on a big show to be with you. In fact, they know that they can be more real with you, because of your accepting nature.
Why You’re Not (Hot)
YOU TEND TO BE TOO ACCOMMODATING
As a WHITE, you have the tendency to accommodate what others want instead of having to tell them “no”. Consequently, you tend to get overloaded with what other people expect of you and soon you can become overwhelmed or end up doing things that you do not enjoy. What happens is that you allow others to take control of the direction of your life instead of you driving towards the life that you and your partner desire.
YOUR DISLIKE OF CONFLICT BLOCKS HONEST CONVERSATION
WHITES do NOT enjoy conflict in the least. It is the opposite of what you crave through your Core Motive of Peace. Rather than get into an argument with your partner, for example, you would rather pretend that everything’s okay, or you would rather lie in a conversation rather than tell her what you really think and risk the potential resulting conflict. So you don’t say anything, until it bugs you so much that a month later it comes out. Let’s be clear… dishonesty is not attractive especially when a severe case of “lack-of-backbone-itis,” lies at the heart of it, so don’t go there.
Now that you know how others see you as a potential partner, you should also know that there are certain things that you subconsciously need from your relationships in order to feel fulfilled and happy. These are your very own little hot buttons. When you find a partner who can push them for you, you may just fall head over heels.
YOU NEED TO FEEL GOOD INSIDE
As a WHITE, feeling good and comfortable on the inside is more important to you than being good or doing the right thing, so you should look for a partner who does two things for you. One, they should not create unnecessary conflict or confrontation, and two, they need to be able to help you become comfortable confronting the necessary issues and not allow you an escape route through dishonesty.
YOU NEED TO BE ALLOWED YOUR OWN SPACE
You enjoy being with people, but you do not need constant social interaction by any stretch of the imagination. You like your alone time which allows you to process thoughts and to daydream. You should find a partner who is able to allow you to have your release time.
YOU WANT TO WITHHOLD YOUR INSECURITIES
You feel insecure about your various inadequacies, and feel embarrassed and confused about what to do when such things are exposed. Therefore, it is your tendency to guard those feelings of insecurity and inadequacy very tightly even from your significant other. This is not always appropriate nor does it facilitate growth, so you should find someone with whom you are able to open your heart and be vulnerable to.
YOU WANT KINDNESS FROM YOUR PARTNER
WHITES are the nicest, kindest people in world. You don’t like conflict, and usually see it as being unnecessary when it manifests itself. You don’t like mean people and what they stand for. Therefore, you need a partner who is kind to you and doesn’t create turmoil and unneeded stress in your life.
Find Out About Others
LOVE POTION NO. 9
So we’ve spent some time talking about you and what makes you more (or less) attractive to the opposite sex, now the burning question in your mind at this point probably has something to do with what you can do to create some positive chemistry with each of the other colors. Knowing that the person you’re interested in is a BLUE, for example, you can know that there are certain things that you can do to better pique their interest in you; likewise there are other things that just may put you so far out of the game that no love potion could ever save you.
Of course, in order to sustain a positive relationship with any color, you must be sincere while following these tips. Manipulation will get you nowhere, and is the worst possible thing that you could build the foundation of your relationship upon. A strong relationship will come of you becoming a better person through increasing your self-awareness, acting out of clean motives (legitimate reasons for doing things; or acting in such a way that makes win-win situations possible), and stretching to get over yourself in a way that allows you to sincerely incorporate these tips so as to make it about your partner and not about yourself (i.e., getting what you want first; selfishness).
Ah, another blog all done! Later.